Celebrate the modern bride to be in style! 40 essential items you need to host a black and white modern bridal shower.

40 Classy Items for a Modern Bridal Shower 2025

Celebrate the Bride With These Modern Bridal Shower Ideas & Inspiration

Pop the champagne, she’s changing her last name! Here you’ll find a complete list of everything you need to have an amazing Modern Bridal Shower.

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I am absolutely loving how we are veering away from the traditional formal aspects of a bridal shower. Before, we were seeing a lot of black and white or pastel floral themes for bridal showers.

Now, we are embracing all sorts of fun themes to celebrate the bride-to-be!

What better way to celebrate than with a Modern Bridal Shower!

I am so excited to share a complete list of what you need for your bridal shower. Keep reading to find a list of items and creative inspiration for your bridal shower!

Planning a bridal shower takes a lot of work.

I created this post for you to make planning easier and to give you some inspiration for a Modern bridal shower.

First, you will need to decide on your venue.

You’ll have to sit down and talk with each one of the bridesmaids about what they can realistically afford to spend for the bridal shower. I would suggest planning this and booking the venue at least 6 months ahead, just so you have an accurate idea of cost.

Next, you’ll want to check in with the bride’s family as well. Is mom/grandma/aunt/sister contributing financially to help with the bridal shower? That will give you a better understanding of the budget you have for the bridal shower.

If you’re lucky enough, someone will allow you to host the shower at their house! This will save the bridesmaids a ton of money. You’ll also have some creative freedom with what decorations you want to use.

Once you’ve booked your venue and have solidified the date and time, you’re ready to start designing an invitation.

Make your invitation on Canva! You can do it for free and it’s super easy. You can choose to either print it on your own or send it digitally.

You’ll want your invitation to stay on theme with the bridal shower.

Of course, you can search online for print companies that will mail the printed invitations to you and spend more money. But that’s your choice.

I would recommend sending out the invitations at least 6-8 weeks in advance of the bridal shower.

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Next, you’ll need to begin thinking about food and drink for the bridal shower.

How long are you hosting the shower? Most showers are only 2 hours, sometimes 3, so that can give you a good idea of how much food to have.

If the shower is only 2 hours in length, let’s say from 2:00pm-4:00pm, you could get away with having a bunch of appetizers and desserts.

Any longer than 2 hours, I would recommend having some sort of meal choice.

Of course, if you have booked a venue, they likely come with their own catering company and you’ll be able to select from a menu.

If you are hosting in someone’s home, you could choose to make the food yourself, have everyone bring a dish, or you could outsource the catering as well.

Don’t forget about drinks!

1. You’ll need flutes! These are simple and disposable.

2.  I am loving these Modern napkins!

3. Black Stirrers

You’ll want to have plenty of bottled water for your guests and maybe another drink choice such as iced tea or lemonade. Soda is not very typical at bridal showers.

To stay on the Bridal Shower theme, you could even make a specialty drink!

4. Put it in this Drink Dispenser!

Then, start thinking about decorations for your bridal shower.

Definitely look at Pinterest for inspo on decorations!

Balloon arches are super on trend right now. You’ll want to look at some inspiration for spooky themed arches, as long as your venue allows this.

You can do the balloon arches indoors. They do not have to be outside! Although you may want to tie a balloon out front of the house/venue so that your guests are sure of where the bridal shower is.

First, here are some Bridal Shower Balloon Arch Ideas:

5. Black Balloon Kit

6. White Balloon Kit

7. Black, White, Confetti Balloons

8. Modern Balloon Kit

9. Black and White Stripe Balloons

10. Black and White Hearts

There are seriously so many different balloon arch kits to choose from on Amazon.

11. Make sure you don’t forget your balloon pump! You will NOT want to be doing this without a pump.

Doing these balloon arches takes a lot of time. Make sure you plan accordingly and that you have people helping you with this! You may want to consider blowing up all of the balloons the night before. They should stay fresh.

Next, think about some other Modern Bridal Shower Decorations:

12. Miss to Mrs. Backdrop

13. Black and White Stripe Backdrop

14. Black Curtain Backdrop

15. Bride to Be Banner

16. She Said Yes Banner

17. Pom Pom Kit

18. Black Tulle Table Skirt

19. Black Table Runner

20. Charcuterie Board Black Picks

21. Black and White Table Confetti

22. Disposable Dinnerware and Silverware Set

23. Cupcake Liners

24. Black and White Hanging Garland

25. Black Bride to Be Cake Topper

26. Black Bridal Shower Cupcake Toppers

27. Black Heart Cupcake Toppers

28. Bridal Shower Photo Props

29. Fairy String Lights

30. Black and White Table Centerpiece

31. Sash For Bride and Groom

You can purchase some frames from the dollar store and make cute signs on Canva to decorate on tables.

32. Better yet, I’ve made some Bridal Shower Printable Signs!

Making them yourself or purchasing print at home templates will save you so much money rather than custom ordering the signs.

Modern Bridal Shower Favor Ideas

33. Key Bottle Opener Favors

34. Heart Shaped Stopper Favors

35. Chapstick Favors

36. Soap Favors

37. Tealight Candle Favors

Finally, you need to think about how you will entertain your guests at your Bridal Shower.

Bridal Showers are known for their cheesy games about the bride or about the couple. You should definitely have some sort of entertainment for the guests, whether it be games or interactive advice cards.

Make sure your games fit the theme of the bridal shower!

38. Guess what?! I’ve made ready to print games

39. and ready to print interactive advice cards with the same theme!

40. You can get all of my Modern Bridal Shower Prints in this bundle. It will seriously save you so much money and time!

Lastly, sit back, relax, eat some food, and have a great time!

I hope you give your bestie the Modern Bridal Shower of her dreams!

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Try any of these tips? Have some Modern Bridal Shower Inspiration to share? Leave a comment!

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